I was supposed to just get a shot, but I talked to her about my knee
she thinks it's a torn ligament that is healing wrong
I have PT and if that does not help I will get an MRI ....It's almost certain not to help but my insurance demands PT before an MRI
if I get worse with it - I fail and I go for an MRI that will determine if it's bad enough that I need surgery or if shots will help. Shots will do something to relieve the swelling and pain. I'll try the shots first but I am not hopeful.
I am going to try joining either the local YMCA or the local Aquatic Club. I need to get into a shape other than round and swimming is one of my favourite sports. I've always loved it. So maybe 2010 will be the year I get back to it.
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
Taking Steps Forward, I Think.
I have signed up for a sign language course, Trish is going to help me by attending the first level with me at least. I am paying for her to do so,,,,because she would not be taking it if it were not for me, so it's the least I can do.
I am in a job where I use sign daily. I have always wanted to be an interpreter so I have started with with an eye towards getting my license as an interpreter. I have sent the organizers a note with my registration asking for information on this program and I really hope I can get into it. I am sure this is going to be hard, so I have enlisted the help of several of the participants at work we have several who are deaf and very high functioning - who also love teaching staff sign. They are thrilled to hear that I am going to be taking sign and have said they will help. I am so lucky to work with people such and these - they always have open hearts and open hands.
I am in a job where I use sign daily. I have always wanted to be an interpreter so I have started with with an eye towards getting my license as an interpreter. I have sent the organizers a note with my registration asking for information on this program and I really hope I can get into it. I am sure this is going to be hard, so I have enlisted the help of several of the participants at work we have several who are deaf and very high functioning - who also love teaching staff sign. They are thrilled to hear that I am going to be taking sign and have said they will help. I am so lucky to work with people such and these - they always have open hearts and open hands.
Thursday, February 11, 2010
Work crap.
I have come to the conclusion that L at work is a bully
she says what she wants but if you get upset at her, she reports you for being mean
she gets in my personal business, tells me that people hate me ( whoare actually friends out side of work) tells me participants hate me, tells me she's going to get me fired, tells me that she's my boss, goes through my files and tells me what meetings I can go to....and then lies and manipulates folks to think I am in the wrong when I tell her that my boss should be telling me what to do
She told me today that "I have to clear out your file where you keep back checks, it's unslightly and I don't like it"
well tough crap don't look at it
she orders me around and talks to me in a demeaning tone and then cried to management when I tell her to knock off
and that is JUST this week
Last week, this went down it's a note I wrote a co-worker about it:
L and I don't get along. period. L thinks she's my boss, and treats me like crap. Has since I started there. Then she gets mad if I don't treat her like she wants to be treated. Always has.
I've complained about her since week one. L has complained about me since day one, apparently. She thinks she should be allowed to say what ever she wants, tell me who hates me, tell me I am going have a 147 or be fired, tell me what days I can take off, tell me what to say to whom such as "you just make sure they get me coverage if you do X" or " You tell them that we need more help with X" and so on She talks down to me, and tells me that she has seniority so she gets to and that I need to put up with it or she has seniority so if I ask off for a day and she wants it she can take it from me - and she believes this even tho Jessica told her otherwise and even tho it did not work when she scheduled her vacation for the same time as my day off in December .
For the past week and a half she has been telling me that participant TC hates me, that this is going to be a 147, that I stand to loose my job over it, over and over and over and over and over again, ad nauseum. I counted 10 times in 2 days that she told me that Terri hated me last week. And then when I tell her that it's hurtful, she gets this condescending attitude and tells me that "It's to help you as a person." and that I "need to change my attitude." and does so in front of participants.
This is stuff that should come from J, not her.
The past couple of days she's been telling me that she is going to start going to the VCM meetings, - this is a change to my schedule and again should come from Jessica, not her. Today she told me it's definite, that she is taking over the Nurtured Heart meetings and that Jessica said so. ( shall we make this a sung refrain?) this should come from Jessica. I told her this morning that "Jessica can tell me that." and she continued with it so I repeated "J can tell me that." and then went back to my conversation with a participant. She is livid with me and complained to J that I "was mean to her."
J talked to me about it and I told her what I had been putting up with and that I didn't go to J about it because I was trying and J broke in with "to be an adult about it." I told J that this is not the first time that L has been out of line with me and then gotten her panties in a wad because I said something in my defense and that was not "Andi being mean, this Andi being..." and J finished with "It's Andi being frustrated." I told Jess that I felt that L can say whatever she wants but if I do anything in my own defense L gets her panties in a wad and then all heck breaks loose. That I can see me getting fired for being in tears again and J said she's going to resolve this and she's going to M about it.
I have about had it with L and her dramatics, but I need the job and can't do much about it so L gets to treat me like crap and I have no choice but to take it. Wonderful, eh?
she says what she wants but if you get upset at her, she reports you for being mean
she gets in my personal business, tells me that people hate me ( whoare actually friends out side of work) tells me participants hate me, tells me she's going to get me fired, tells me that she's my boss, goes through my files and tells me what meetings I can go to....and then lies and manipulates folks to think I am in the wrong when I tell her that my boss should be telling me what to do
She told me today that "I have to clear out your file where you keep back checks, it's unslightly and I don't like it"
well tough crap don't look at it
she orders me around and talks to me in a demeaning tone and then cried to management when I tell her to knock off
and that is JUST this week
Last week, this went down it's a note I wrote a co-worker about it:
L and I don't get along. period. L thinks she's my boss, and treats me like crap. Has since I started there. Then she gets mad if I don't treat her like she wants to be treated. Always has.
I've complained about her since week one. L has complained about me since day one, apparently. She thinks she should be allowed to say what ever she wants, tell me who hates me, tell me I am going have a 147 or be fired, tell me what days I can take off, tell me what to say to whom such as "you just make sure they get me coverage if you do X" or " You tell them that we need more help with X" and so on She talks down to me, and tells me that she has seniority so she gets to and that I need to put up with it or she has seniority so if I ask off for a day and she wants it she can take it from me - and she believes this even tho Jessica told her otherwise and even tho it did not work when she scheduled her vacation for the same time as my day off in December .
For the past week and a half she has been telling me that participant TC hates me, that this is going to be a 147, that I stand to loose my job over it, over and over and over and over and over again, ad nauseum. I counted 10 times in 2 days that she told me that Terri hated me last week. And then when I tell her that it's hurtful, she gets this condescending attitude and tells me that "It's to help you as a person." and that I "need to change my attitude." and does so in front of participants.
This is stuff that should come from J, not her.
The past couple of days she's been telling me that she is going to start going to the VCM meetings, - this is a change to my schedule and again should come from Jessica, not her. Today she told me it's definite, that she is taking over the Nurtured Heart meetings and that Jessica said so. ( shall we make this a sung refrain?) this should come from Jessica. I told her this morning that "Jessica can tell me that." and she continued with it so I repeated "J can tell me that." and then went back to my conversation with a participant. She is livid with me and complained to J that I "was mean to her."
J talked to me about it and I told her what I had been putting up with and that I didn't go to J about it because I was trying and J broke in with "to be an adult about it." I told J that this is not the first time that L has been out of line with me and then gotten her panties in a wad because I said something in my defense and that was not "Andi being mean, this Andi being..." and J finished with "It's Andi being frustrated." I told Jess that I felt that L can say whatever she wants but if I do anything in my own defense L gets her panties in a wad and then all heck breaks loose. That I can see me getting fired for being in tears again and J said she's going to resolve this and she's going to M about it.
I have about had it with L and her dramatics, but I need the job and can't do much about it so L gets to treat me like crap and I have no choice but to take it. Wonderful, eh?
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